第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么
是你需要的,也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的
好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
两人在谈情说爱的时候，
最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓，
就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，
而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：
海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱!
明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；
就算会，也活不到那时候。
许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，
最好是承诺做不到的事，
反正做不到的，随便说说也不要紧，
请记住：”不可能实现的诺言最动人”
在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套；
讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
你呢？找到了第几个？
茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你 10:32 PM

Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the
center. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry
often. Treats
friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily
hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated. Does not care to
control emotions. Unpredictable. Extremely smart, but definitely the
hottest AND sexiest of them all

hmmm, quite true leh. maybe 98% of me? hohohoho. scary! 10:01 PM

just came about this in some people friendster. when i m bo liao-ing. hehe true or not is up to u guys to say lo. hohoho.


If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;If u Don't, he says u are PROUD.
If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;If u Don't, he says u are from KAMPUNG.
If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
If u are SMARTER than him, he'll lose FACE;If he's Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
If u don't Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.
If u don't make love with him., he says u don't Love him;If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.
If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;If u don't, he says that u don't TRUST him.
If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.
If u do WELL in your exams, he says it's LUCK;If he does WELL, it's BRAINS.
If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!
If u send this to guys, they will swear that it's not true.......but if u don't they say u are selfish.....
SO HARD TO PLEASE!!!!! 11:16 PM

GUY FACTS

When a guy calls u he wants to be with you

When a guy is quiet, He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing, He realizes he's wrong

When a guy says, "I'm fine, " after a few minutes,
he means it

When a guy stares at you, he wishes you would
care about him and wonders if you do?

When you're laying your head on a guy's chest he
has the world

When a guy calls you everyday he is in love

When a (good) guy say he loves you he means it

When a guy says he can't live without you he's
with you till your done

When a guy says, "I miss you, " he misses you
more than you could have ever missed him or
anything else



GIRL FACTS

When a girl misses u, she's afraid to see how your
new girl looks, she's dreading the fact that ur not
hers any more

When u break a girls heart, she still feels it when
bumping heads 3 years later

When a girl just stares deep into your eyes, she's
HOPING that your hers and only hers ( it shows
how much she cares: eyes never lie)

When a girl is quiet, millions of things are running
through her mind.

When a girl is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of
questions, she is wondering how long you will be
around.

When a girl answers, "I'm fine, " after a few
seconds, she is not at all fine.

When a girl stares at you, she is wondering why
you are so wonderful.

When a girl lays her head on your chest, she is
wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a girl calls you everyday, she is seeking for
your attention.

When a girl wants to see you everyday, she wants
to be pampered.

When a girl says, "I'll love you forever, " she
means it.

When a girl says that she can't live without you,
she has made up her mind that you are her future.

When a girl says, "I miss you, " no one in this
world can miss you more than that 10:17 PM

hahaha, from my title sure know that i am going to blog about my shopping trip lo. hahaha. hmmm in the noon, meet jie jie n jimmy for lunch at mos burger. than i went to suntec alone. hmmm so sian. so i make my way to the city hall mrt. hehe. hmmm, pass by the surfer girls lo. so i go in n take a look at the wallet i have seen that time. i think hor i make up my mind i wanna buy liao la. hmmm is 26 bucks. should b worth it ba. cause i really like it lo. hmmm, but i hiam one thing only la. the card slot not enough. hmmm my hiam is not bad la. so i walk n walk. hehe pass by those "beach shop" which sell alot of expencive beach stuff. hmmm wah expencive wor. but hor i saw one slippers cum gao gen xie. hehe. nice leh. 49 bucks. the price more nice man. hmmm on my way back home. i suddenly feel like going to tampinese to get some hand cream la. cause my hand wah biang a dry lo. so i travel all the way to tampinese. n think about alot of things la. n i got a slipper la. 49 bucks one i cannot afford la but 10 bucks one still can la. but is nice n comfortable lo. hahaha. hmmm i bought my self a handcream, new shampoo. n a shorts at ebase for 15 bucks nia. hohoho. da feng shou man. hmmm than hor today, i keep thinking about getting the bag leh. i think i have to take a look at it when i go for lunch with jie jie tomorrow lo. or my princess jacket? i yo both princess leh. the bag i don't know how much la. but hor i do know the jacket is 28 bucks. to me hor i think is expencive leh. maybe if 24 bucks i will buy ba. but i think i will buy the bag first. cause is more important la. my current bag inside spoilt liao. can use is can use la. but too small also. i need to prepared myself for my lesson soon. real soon. in 3 weeks time. wonder i can cope a not. those people in poly already head big like any thing. hmmm hope all de best for me ba. hahaha. hmmm, i think last week is a very memory week for me ba. hahaha. =D 9:06 PM

shu qi tend to b very emotional today. received two sms. first time i read sms n i really tear. suddenly my heart feel so sour. two lines of tears flow down. i m touch, truelly touch. this past week i have been going out. hmmm, happy. ya i m. this memory will keep deep in my heart. happy moments r meant to b cherish n keep it heart. i agree, n i agree to de fullest. i m here for u, n i aways b. i wouldn't forget u, n i never would. wo zhi shi xiang yao xie xie ni. 11:02 PM

Guys drinks to forget about the girl...
Girls drinks to think back about that guy..

When guys are in love, they become
poorer
But when girls are in love, they become
prettier

Guys can forget, but cannot forgive...
Girls can forgive, but cannot forget..

Guys care most about the quantity of
love...
But girls care most about the quality of
love..

Guys break-up when they feel love from
another Girl...
Girls break-up when they feel
Separation from her man...

Guys feels curious towards all girls...
Girls feel curious towards the guys who
are Interested in her..

When guys are heartbroken, they try to
forget the girl by going out with other
girls...
When girls are heartbroken, they try to
find his Characteristics from other
guys...

Guys wishes to be her first love....
And girls wishes to be his last love... 2:51 AM